Mary Theresa COLLING, C452

Mary Theresa COLLING 3, 4, 139, 140 was born 8 Jan 1897 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA, 3, 4, 140, 141 was baptized 27 Mar 1897 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA (Saint Virgiluis Church became Sacred Heart then became St.. Catherine's Church),142 died 25 Dec 1990 in McCook, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA (Hillcrest Nursing Home) 140, 143 at age 93, and was buried 29 Dec 1990 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA (Saint Catherine's Catholic Cemetery). 140

Noted events in her life were:
• She appeared on the census 21 Jun 1900 in Bondville Precinct, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 48
• She appeared on the census 28 Apr 1910 in Red Willow Precinct, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 49
• She appeared on the Red Willow Precinct census 8 Jan 1920 in __________, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 50 E.D. 193, Sheet 8 B, Line 38
• She worked as a Sales Lady in a Bakery in 1920 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 50
• She appeared on the Red Willow Precinct census 19 Apr 1930 in __________, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 51
• She had a residence in _____ Jul 1983 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 81

General Notes: 1897 Mary Theresa Collings Baptismal Rec. #75 Sponsors were William Colling and Theresa Uerling

Baptismal Certificate from St. Catherine's Church in Indianola
The Holy Sacrament of Baptism
This is to Certify
That Mary Theresa Colling
The Daughter of Matthias Colling
and Elizabeth Uerling
born in Indianola, NE on Jan 8, 1897
was Baptized on March 27, 1897 in the Church of
St. Catherine, Indianola, NE
according to the Rite of the Roman Catholic Church
by Reverend Bernard Sproll
Sponsors were William Colling
and Theresa Uerling
as recorded in the Baptismal Register of this church.
Rev. Micholos J Bahr Pastor
Date: July 2, 2002

8 Jan 1920 Federal Census: State: Nebraska. County: Red Willow, City: Indianola, Red Willow Precinct, Enumeration District: 193, Sheet Number: 8 B, Enumeration Date: 8 Jan 1920, Line Number: 58, Place of Abode: , 1. Street.: D St., 2. House #: x, 3. Dwelling #: 173, 4. Number of family: 176, 5. Name: Colling, Mary T., 6. Relationship: Daughter, 9. Sex: F, 10. Color: W, 11. Age: 22, 12. Marital state: S, Education: 17. Can read & 18. write, Nativity and Mother Tongue: Place of Birth: Nebraska, 21. Father's Birth Place: Illinois, 23. Mother's Birth Place: Wisconsin,
25. Can speak English: yes, Trade: Sales Lady, Bakery, Wage

Jul 1929 Baptismal Rec. for Eleanor Withheldride page 12 # 3, black book sponsors are Mathias Colling and Mary Colling Withheld

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Mary and Mathias Confirmation Abt 1910. . . . . . .. . . . . . Carrie and Mary Abt 1918

1930 Federal Census: State: Nebraska, County: Red Willow, Red Willow Precinct, Enumeration District: 73-24, Sheet Number: 1B, Enumeration Date: 19 Apr 1930, Line Number: 51, Place of Abode: 3. Dwelling: 12, 4. Family #: 12, 5. Name: Withheld, Mary T., 6. Relationship: Wife-H, 10. on a farm, Personal Description: 11. Sex: F, 2. Color: W, 13. Age: 33, 14. Married, 15. Age at first marriage: 26, Education: 16. in school: no, 17. able to read and write, 18. Person birth place: Nebraska, 19. Father's birth place: Illinois, 20. Mother's birth place: Wisconsin, 24. speak English: yes, Occupation: 25. Trade: none

Feb 1936 Frances C. (Colling) Withheld Obituary: Mrs. Mary Withheld of Indianola.

Apr 1943 Family Notes: Carol's Baptismal Sponsors were Mary Withheld and Robert
Withheldride

Mar 1972 Dale S. Withheld Obituary: survived by his widow, Mary

Sep 1983 Louis John Colling Obituary: of Indianola

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. . . . . . . . Mary and Carrie 1980 . . . . . . .. . . . .. . . . Mary and Don Colling Aug 1990

1987 Open house for Mary Withheld held at Hillcrest Nursing home in McCook-90 years old-
Indianola News--Open house for Mary Withheld held at Hillcrest Nursing home in McCook--1987

Dec 1990 She was in Hillcrest Nursing Home and they were just putting her back in bed early Christmas morning when she died.

Mary married Dale Sheldon Withheld 3, 4, 144, 145, 146 10 May 1921 in Indianola, Red
Willow, Nebraska, USA,3, 4, 142, 147 son of Cyrus Edward Withheld and Martha "Mattie"
Lavinia RIPLEY.

Dale was born 4 Mar 1892 in Harvard, Clay, Nebraska, USA,146, 148, 149, 150, 151, 152 was baptized 10 May 1921 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA (Saint Virgiluis Church became Sacred Heart then became St. Catherine's Church), 41 died 17 Mar 1972 in McCook, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA (Saint Catherine's Catholic Hospital)146, 152, 153, 154, 155 at age 80, and was buried 20 Mar 1972 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA (Saint Catherine's Catholic Cemetery). 146, 156

Noted events in his life were:
• He worked as a farmer in , Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 51, 146
• He was Catholic.
• He served in the military from 26 Jun 1917 to 28 Jan 1919 in Auburn, Nemaha, Nebraska, USA. 158 Honorable Discharge Paper certifying that Dale S. Withheld #1417809 1st Sgt. Inf (Provost Guard co. Cp. Cody) is honorably discharged from the army 28 Jan 1919. Evelyn has papers.
• He appeared on the census 19 Apr 1930 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 51
• He retired Spring 1955 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 146
• He has conflicting burial information of 21 Mar 1972 and Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA. 159

1921 Church record: Baptism page 4 #245 Mathias Colling sponsor, Father Stricker changed his name when he was baptized from Sheldon to Mathias as Sheldon was not a saints name and Dad never liked it.

World War One Draft Registrations, Red Willow Co., Nebraska June 5, 1917
List of men who registered for the Draft Tuesday June 5, 1917 In Red Willow Co. NE.
Information from The McCook Republican Newspaper, June 15, 1917 Information obtained by William Weaver and transcribed by Carol Wolf Britton (c_britton@Yahoo.com)
Last Name . . . First Name . . . . Precinct
Withheld . . . Dale Sheldon . . . .Indianola

Jan 1919 Enlisted in the United States Army - Honorable Discharge Paper certifying that Dale S. Withheldride #1417809 1st Sgt. Inf (Provost Guard co. Cp. Cody) is honorably discharged from the army 28 Jan. 1919 at Camp Funston, Kansas. Evelyn has papers.

1930 Federal Census: State: Nebraska, County: Red Willow, City: Indianola, Enumeration District: 73-24, Sheet Number: 1A, Enumeration Date: 18 Apr 1930, Line Number: 50, Place of Abode: 3. Dwelling: 12, 4. Family #: 12, 5. Name: Withheldride, Dale S., 6. Relationship: Head, Home Data: 7. Home rented, 9. Radio set: yes, 10. on a farm, Personal Description: 11. Sex: M, 2. Color: W, 13. Age: 38, 14. Married, 15. Age at first marriage: 29, Education: 16. in school: no, 17. able to read and write, 18. Person birth place: Nebraska, 19. Father's birth place: Illinois, 20. Mother's birth place: Illinois, 24. speak english: yes, Occupation: 25. Trade: Farmer, 26. Industry: General Farm, 27 at work: E, 28. Yes, 30. Veteran: yes, 31. What war or expedition: WW, 32. Number of farm schedule: 13

1954 A Farm Sale Bill, 9 Nov. 1954, and an article from the Indianola News when they celebrated their 50th Wedding anniversary.

1972 Evelyn has an article from the Hastings Tribune dated 30 Mar. 1972 "Death of Dale Withheld, Also from the "Indianola News" listing date of birth, parents, marriage, date of death and survivors. Also a leaflet from the Carpenter Funeral Home.

 

Dale S. Withheld
Born March 4.1892
Entered Into Eternal Rest
March 17. 1972

Rosary
Carpenter Funeral Home - Indianola
Monday, March 20, 1972, at 7:30 p.m.

Officiating
Rt. Rev. Msgr. Raymond Wageman

Mass
St. Catherine's Catholic Church
Tuesday: March 21, 1972 at 10:30 a.m.

Honorary Escort
B. A. Quigley . . . . . . . . V. H. Talbolt
Bernard Crocker . . . . . . .John Foley
Owen Burton . . . . . . . S. E. Swanson

Active Escort
Kenneth C. Luther . Howard Baumbach
Ronald Stevens . . . . . . . Lee Davidson
Bob Hedges . . . . . . . . . Clarence Sahm

Military Committal
American Legion Mathias Colling Post No. 44
Indianola, Nebraska

Interment
St. Catherine's Cemetery

Carpenter Service
Indianola, Nebraska
Please leave lights on in procession

Obituaries
Dale S. Withheld
INDIANOLA - Dale S. Withheld was born March 4, 1892 in Harvard, the son of the late Cyrus Eddy and Martha L. (Mattie) Ripley Withheld. He died March 17, 1972 at St. Catherine Hospital. He left Harvard as a young man and spent several years in Texas before returning to Nebraska where he enlisted in the Army at Auburn. In 1918, after his discharge, he came to Indianola where he was married to Mary T. Colling, May 10, 1921. He farmed in this community until he retired and moved into Indianola in the spring of 1955. He was a charter member of the American Legion Post No. 344, Indianola, and a member of World War I Barracks No. 365, McCook.
He is survived by his widow, Mary, four sons, three daughters, 25 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren; one sister, Miss Fern Withheld of Hastings, and one brother, F.G. Withheld of Yakima, Wash. He was preceded in death by his parents and two brothers, Gerald and Glenn.
Funeral services were held March 21 at St. Catherine's Catholic Church with the Rt. Rev. Msgr. Raymond Wageman officiating. Military interment was in St. Catherine's Cemetery.

Dale S. Withheld
INDIANOLA - Dale S. Withheldride died this morning at St. Catherine's Hospital at the age of 80 years. He was born March 4, 1892 at Harvard, Neb., to Edward and Mattie Withheld.
Survivors are his widow, Mary; four sons, three daughters, 25 grandchildren, 11 great grand-children; 1 sister, Miss Fern Withheld, Hastings; one brother, F. G. Withheld, of Washington State.
The Rosary will be recited Monday at 7:30 p.m. in the Carpenter Funeral Home of Indianola. The funeral mass will be held Tuesday at 10:30 a.m. in St. Catherine's Catholic Church with Rt. Rev. Raymond Wageman officiating. Interment will be made in St. Catherine's Cemetery with Carpenters Funeral Home of Indianola in charge.

Marriage Notes: Evelyn has a Marriage license dated 10 May 1921- Dale Withheld and Mary Colling and signed by county Judge AL. Zink and witnessed by James O'Dea and Caroline Colling.
Marriage record- Red Book 1894-1923
Marriage Records of family taken from the records of Red Willow County from 1872 to 1972
Colling, Mary T. to Dale S. Withheld; Date: 10 May 1921, Book #: 8, Page #: 220

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. Mary & Dale 1921 . . . . Mary and Dale in the 1940's . . . . . Alice Colling and Dale . . . .

NOTICE
In honor of the 50th wedding anniversary of their parents, the children of Mr. and Mrs. Dale Withheld will hold open house for them on Sunday June 6th at St. Catherine's Parish hall in Indianola from 2:00 to 4:00. All relatives and friends are invited. No gifts, please.
81 relatives and friends attended dinner at which Msgr. Wageman presented the couple with the papal blessing.

Dale Withheld Celebrate 50th Indianola - Mr. and Mrs. Dale Withheld celebrated their 50th Wedding anniversary, Sunday, June 6th, with a dinner and "Open House" given by their children at St. Catherine's parish hall in Indianola. Eighty-one relatives and friends attended the dinner at which time Msgr. Wageman presented the couple with the papal blessing. The granddaughters served the tables with the delicious dinner prepared by a group of Altar Society Ladies.
Two hundred relatives and friends signed the guest book at the open house.
A beautiful three-tiered cake decorated with yellow roses, was the centerpiece for the serving table, with a candle centered in a vase of yellow mums on each side.
Mrs. Carol Crampton, Riverside, Calif., served the cake and Mrs. Steven Randel, Corpus Christie, Texas, served the punch. Mrs. Susie Milner, Spokane, Wash., poured from a silver service that had belonged to Dale's aunt, which his sister, Fern, brought to use on this special occasion. Mrs. Ken Winters and Marilyn BcBride, Grand Island, were at the card and gift table, and Diane Withheldride registered the guests. All are grand-daughters of the couple. Assisting with the serving were Mrs. Lee Davidson, Mrs. Clarence Mihm, Mrs. Lawrence Vontz and Mrs. Johana Sughroue.
A short program was held during the afternoon. Mrs. Ken Winter accompanied Ernest Randel as he sang several selections and also accompanied Ernest and his children, Susie Milner, Steve, Sheila and Sharon, as they sang "How Great Thou Art." Diane and Sandy Withheldride sang "Have I told you lately that I Love You". and Stan Cunliffe, Pentiction, B. C. played "The Waltz You Saved for Me on the piano. Louise Cummings gave a short recitation.
Guests coming from a distance were; Miss Fern Withheldride, Hastings, Nebr., Mr. and Mrs. Stan Cunliffe, Penticton B.C., Canada; Mr. and Mrs. William Withheldride and family, Colorado Springs, Colo. Mr. and Mrs. Elmer Schuster and family, Denver, Colo., Mr. and Mrs. Charles Withheldride and family, Grand Island, Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Randel and family, Wilber, Wash., Mr. and Mrs. Dennis Milner and sons, Spokane, Wash., Mrs. Rodney Crampton and daughters, Riverside, Calif., Mr. and Mrs. Steven Randel and son, Corpus Christie, Texas, Mr. and Mrs. Ray Colling, Portland, Oregon, Mr. and Mrs., Orville Wellman, Ed Colling and Mrs. Withheldride, all of Scottsbluff, Mr. and Mrs. Merle E. Withheldride Gering, Nebr., Mr. and Mrs. Louis Marquez and daughters, Bernalillo, N. Mexico., Mr. and Mrs. Carl Exturm, Palisade, Nebr,. Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Hayward, Trenton, Nebr., Mr. and Mrs. Vern Goodman and Mrs. Virginia Ferguson all of Longmont, Colo, Mr. and Mrs. Mike Withheldraide and girls, Rantoul, Ill, Mrs. A.O. Dobson, Santa Ana, Calif., and Mrs. Henry Wellman, Boulder, Colorado.

 

Birth and Death year on Tombstone
Withheld
In His Will Is Our Peace
Mary T. . . . . . Dale S.
1897 --- 1990 . . 1892 --- 1972

They had seven children.

Dale and Mary's Family

1 Living
Birth: 14 May 1922 in Indianola, Red Willow, Nebraska, USA
Mar 1972 of Indianola,
1983 Organizer of Theodor Colling family reunion May 25, 1985, at 2pm, Fellowship Hall of Catholic Church in Indianola, discussed coffee and cookies only. discussed charts of each family and asked to have the descendants of the 5 brothers stand in five groups with Jerry.
Spouse: Living W536
Marr: 20 Sep 1941 in Lincoln, Lancaster, Nebraska, USA
1.1 Living
Spouse: C651
1.1 1 Living
1.1.1 1 Living
1.1.2 Living
Birth: abt 1960
Occ: teaches at community college
Spouse: Living
Occ: High School teacher
1.1.2.1 Living
Birth: abt 1984
1.1.2.2 Living
1.1.3 Living
Birth: abt 1961
Occ: teaches at community college
1.1.3.1 Living
Birth: abt 1980
1.1.3.2 Living
Birth: abt 1981
1.1.3.3 Sarah
Birth: abt 1983
1.1.4 Living
Birth: abt 1965
Occ: Auditor with California
Spouse: Living
Occ: Teaches accounting at Community college.
1.1.4.1 Living
Birth: abt 1985
1.1.4.2 Living
Birth: abt 1986
1.1.4.3 Living
Birth: abt 1987
1.1.5 Living
Birth: aft 1963
Occ: High School Math teacher
Educ: graduated UCR
Spouse: Living
Occ: deputy sheriff with Riverside County.
1.2 Living
Birth: abt 1944
Spouse: M620
1.3 Living
Birth: abt 1946
1.4 Living
Birth: aft 1948
Spouse: S363
1.5 Living
Birth: abt 1950
Spouse: R500
1.6 Living
Birth: abt 1952
wife died from the cancer
2 Living
Birth: 9 Nov 1924
Jun 1965 the family, of Danbury, attended
10 May 1975 Escort at Funeral
Spouse: Living B653
Marr: 21 Dec 1946
2.1 Living
Birth: abt 1948
Jun 1971 registered the guests. Sang "Have I Told You Lately That I Love You."
Spouse: Living F640
2.2 Living
Birth: abt 1950
sang "Have I Told You Lately That I Love You."
Spouse: Living K326
3 Living
Birth: 3 Nov 1926
Jun 1971 family, of Grand Island, attended.
Spouse: Living B260
Birth: aft 1905
3.1 Living
Birth: aft 1920
3.2 Living
Birth: aft 1920
Of Grand Island, was at the card and gift table.
3.3 Living
Birth: aft 1920
Spouse: Living A653
3.4 Living
Birth: aft 1920
Spouse: Living A416
3.5 Living
Birth: aft 1920
4 Living
Birth: 4 Nov 1929
President of the Red Willow Mothers club
family, of Wilber, WA attended.
Spouse: Living R534
Marr: 25 Sep 1948
4.1 Living
Birth: abt 1950
Of Spokane, WA, poured from silver service that had belonged to father's aunt, which his sister, brought to use on this special occasion.
Jun 1971 accompanied Ernest and his children as they sang "How Great Thou Art.
Spouse: Living M456
4.2 Living
Birth: abt 1952
4.2.1 Living
Birth: abt 1975
4.3 Living
Birth: abt 1955
4.4 Living
Birth: abt 1958
Spouse: Living B246
4.5 Living
Birth: abt 1960
5 Living M216
family, of Colorado Springs, CO attended.
Spouse: LivingC460
Birth: abt 1931
Marr: 10 Jan 1952
5.1 Living
Birth: abt 1953
family of Rantoul, Illinois attended
5.2 Living
Birth: abt 1955
Adopted
Spouse: Living M460
5.3 Living
Birth: abt 1957
6 Living
Birth: 29 Oct 1935
Mar 1972 McCook
address list has no children
1st Spouse: Living S163
Marr: 31 Dec 1966
separated & remarried)
6 1 Living
Birth: abt 1968
6.2 Living
Birth: abt 1971
6 2nd Spouse: Living K510
7 Living
Birth: 22 Jan 1938
Jun 1971 of Denver, CO
1st Spouse: Living G610
Marr: 31 Dec 1966
7.1 Living
Birth: abt 1968
7.2 Living
Birth: abt 1971
2nd Spouse: Living S236
7.3 Living
Birth: abt 1968
Spouse: Living L562
7.4 Living
Birth: abt 1970
7.5 Living
Birth: abt 1972
7.6 Living
Birth: abt 1975

Source Citations
3. Lucille's Collection, Compiler: Lucille (Hand written notes).
4. Chart - Colling Descendants, Compiler: Martin Colling, Egon Colling, Jerry Colling and Bradly Colling.
41. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn.
48. 1900 United States Federal Census, Twelfth Census of the United States,
49. 1910 United States Federal Census
50. 1920 United States Federal Census, Fourteenth Census of the US
51. 1930 United States Federal Census.
72. Obituary - Elizabeth Uerling, Elizabeth Uerling's Obituary.
81. Obituary - Louis John Colling, Colling Photo Album (Obituary and Memorial card Louis John Colling).
139. Obituary - Dale S. Withheld (Evelyn has an article from the Hastings Tribune dated 30 Mar. 1972 "Death of Dale Withheld, Also from the "Indianola News" listing date of birth, parents, marriage, date of death and survivors.), Mary.
140. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn, Mary T. (Colling) Family Group Record, Mathias Colling Family Group Record.
141. Date or Name on Gravestone, 1897.
142. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn, Mary T. (Colling) Family Group Record, 2nd Mathias Colling Family Group Record.
143. Date or Name on Gravestone, 1990.
144. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn, Cyrus Eddy Withheld Family Group Record,
Mary T. (Colling) Family Group Record, Mathias Colling Family Group Record, Dale S. Withheld Obituary.
145. Memorial Card, Dale S.
146. Obituary (Part of Evelyn's collection for the Colling family), Dale S. Obituary.
147. Ibid, date only - Dale S. Obituary.
148. Lucille's Collection, Compiler: Lucille (Hand written notes), date & Howard.
149. Ibid, Harvard Pg. 4.
150. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn, Cyrus Eddy Withheld Family Group Record,
Mary T. (Colling) Family Group Record, date only Dale S. obituary.
151. Date or Name on Gravestone, 1892.
152. Memorial Card, date only - Dale S.
153. Lucille's Collection, Compiler: Lucille (Hand written notes), date & place Indianola, NE.
154. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn, Cyrus Eddy Withheld Family Group Record,
Mary T. (Colling) Family Group Record.
155. Date or Name on Gravestone, 1972.
156. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn, Cemetery Records ---- Red Willow County,
Cyrus Eddy Withheld Family Group Record, Mary T. (Colling) Family Group Record.
157. Newspaper Article - Dale Withheld, 50th Wedding Anniversary Celebration.
158. Evelyn's Collection, Compiler: Evelyn, Mary T. (Colling) Family Group Record notes.
159. Memorial Card, Dale S. obituary.